FACT OR FICTION???

As we grow up and become women that are old enough to do "dilo tsa batho ba bagolo", direct translation (adult things), we always come across statements like "bo pila ba monna bo mo potleng" (a man's attractiveness is in his wallet), "di lazaro dija monate" (broke guys chow properly) and "banna ba naleng di chelete ba bofokodi" (opposite of the lazaro statement about monied  men)!

I don't know how true this really is though... And as women, do we believe these things based on the fact that its information that is passed on to us or is it our experiences?
Are the tails we've been told about Lazaro and the attractiveness of a man being in a wallet, not swaying the direction of our perceptions maybe? I mean, I could date an ugly ass filthy rich man and not spend a dime of his money and enjoy his "bofokodi" or date a broke guy that won't come close to "getting me there" and still have the audacity to ask for R100 for gas money... That's if he didn't need to be picked up to begin with!
Though I've always wondered, bo lazaro, where do they get this supposed skill??? And then I think...  it's obviously because when other men are working on the sizes of their wallets, they are watching movies and practicing how to pick a girl up and chow her on the kitchen counter... Hmmm... Not far fetched... Anyway...

My take is, its about sexual compatibility, really... But the flaw in my diplomatic view point is; what happens when you really like someone and he is everything you are looking for in a man and ticks all the right boxes but has a small centre piece??? Do you then exercise your running abilities? Or do you consult men's health? Or do you go with "its about the ocean in the motion or motion in the ocean" concept?!

We are very judgmental as women... And sometimes we put unnecessary pressure on men... Shame!
What if its not that he doesn't have a small willy? Maybe its that you might just have a bigger situation down there, than what he's used to?

I've heard all sorts ofname calling of the guys' packages... From "s'khrumelo sa lipstick", "cheesegriller", "malana a khoho", "potato wedge", "pinnochio" and the funniest I've heard, "mbitjana"... Let's play nice ladies... Lets play nice!

Is it fact or fiction in your experience? Lazaro oja monate for real? and skepsil sa Modimo, rra di chelete o foketse? I know we all have stories that bring a chuckle or two... But...

Their egos lie in their centre pieces and we all stroke them for different reasons so I guess these stories and teachings might not necessarily ring truth to some of us and for some... They may have just hit the nail on the head!