HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT...

Confusion and fear may cause us to make the wrong decisions and create a snowball of other negative and heavy emotions!

Emotions that cloud your judgment, blur your sight and numbs your senses from guarding against making so called bad decisions... Yes, so called... Sometimes these bad decisions give birth to situations that will strengthen other ties in your life... They open doors you never fathomed would welcome your presence and find a new place called home. At times, we need that fear and confusion to redirect us on the path we need to be on and possibly gives meaning and comprehension to the path you're in. 

Though its a tough space to be in, dwelling in this confusion comes with comfort and being ok with not making a decision... It's comfortable because even with the knowledge of each decisions consequences, there is greater comfort in living in the moment as opposed to taking a risk and finding that your predicted consequences may actually not be accurate! 

They say you can't have your cake and eat it too... But is cake not there to be eaten? If you are not ready to leave that space of confusion... It's ok! The day will come when you stop eating that cake! Sometimes we need the confusion to be able to appreciate what you will have or be humbled by the consequences of what could've been...

Even in the midst of our confusion and fear, you remain  phenomenal... We will be shaped by the decisions you make... Good or bad... There's always a lesson! In every lesson, there is growth as you are now equipped with the experience to make informed decisions for future "bad spaces"...