The golden girl is such a sweet child, beautiful daughter, responsible sister... Never disappoints!
She has never been in trouble with her parents or teachers or anyone for that matter...
When the golden girl grows up, she is expected to live a certain lifestyle, a boring one in fact, date a certain type of man and have a certain type of job! But no one really asks what this woman wants or needs... Everyone assumes their thoughts are hers, their expectations of her are her aspirations and their hopes for her are her dreams!
No one ever asked her!
Maybe she actually isnt a good girl... Maybe she is a rebel, a bitch, a fuck up, a druggy, a nymph, an alcoholic! But no one really asked her...
Maybe she loves being a mistress, maybe she is good at being bad, maybe just enjoys being with bad boys, maybe she wants to be with a woman.... Just maybe! But no one asks these things because they have her life figured out!
No matter how rebellious others may think you are and how much people pass judgement, YOU own your destiny and everyone else just plays a role in it! If it makes you happy and doesnt eat your heart and soul away, be it!
Let it feel right...
As long as you live a regret free life and you can sleep at night.... I dont see why you too, cant be phenomenal!
This rings true for many young girls!! Our families and people around us have ideas of the people they want us to be. The moment we deviate from that we have "changed" or are going off track (according to them). What others may percieve as going off track could possibly be who we really are. We really should just do what makes us happy @time:-)
ReplyDeleteMaybe...just maybe everyone's idea of golden is so screwed up. I say let everybody say you have changed, like you say, if you are able to sleep at night then oh well...
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