Chatting to a friend of mine this week reminded me of how much crap women tolerate, even with sex!
Which had me thinking how one could start a whole new blog about women's sexual experiences... But thats for another time!
So our conversation led me to looking up the dictionary meaning or definition of the word gyrate because that movement alone, can mess things up with a blink of an eye...
Gyrate /jirat/ verb: 1. Move or cause to move in a circle or spiral, esp. QUICKLY!
That definition for me, was enough to forgive some unmentionable characters because the definition does highlight that its quick! Anyway...
So as we laugh and exchange disastrous sexual experiences...
I ask myself, why is it that women are able to carry on sleeping with a man that doesnt make her toes curl, her knees shake and her cookie contract? Is sex, apart from reproduction, not supposed to give you a body contracting moment that sends blood rushing so quickly from your precious nunu to your throat and exerts itself in the form of a moan from an uncontrolably, juicy, heart racing outter body experience???...
Why is it that we opt for examining the ceiling or cracks on the walls when its crap? Rather than asking a man to stop... Are we desperate to be touched? Are we not confident enough to demand he stops? Are we that comfortable with compromising our standards and settling? Is it a sense of being wanted by a man that makes it ok?
These are some of the questions I had in my head and I just wondered how different things could be if women didnt fake it because if he is just a shag, why fake it? Do women then not give, as my dear friend says, "pity sex" a lot more than they think?
To think that when men are not feeling and actually dont want to carry on with it, they just stop!
Oh but we are phenomenal creatures... Even when dissatified, women still nurture men's egos! Our silence will forever cripple us...
Sad truth* sometimes women give it up even when they aren't in the mood to indulge because its their "duty" to keep their man satisfied...*sigh*
ReplyDeleteI second that kani. we tend to feel that if we dont dish out, someone else will so we do it even if we are tense throughout the whole thing (this is where the art of faking an orgasm erupted from)
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